ExpansiveCoach with Jory

Executive Leadership Well-Being Life Mentor Coaching

Welcome! My name is Jory, and I’m delighted you’re here.

I’m the founder of ExpansiveCoach™, and I’m profoundly grateful to have supported hundreds of leaders, professionals and coaches as they navigate what I call the messy middle—that very human season of balancing a demanding career, family life, relationships, and often, caregiving or transition.

If you’re feeling the pull toward change — or simply ready to feel more like yourself again — this is where we begin.

I help leaders, professionals, and coaches navigate the in-between seasons when life and leadership feel full, yet not always fulfilling.

The EXPANSIVE™ Framework

I created the EXPANSIVE™ Framework as a whole-person approach to coaching that supports people through the real transitions, questions, and pressures of life and leadership.

Each element of the framework offers a lens we can draw from depending on what’s needed — whether that’s embodied awareness, values-driven visioning, or building capacity through the nervous system.

At its core, EXPANSIVE™ Coaching is about creating room to breathe and expanding your capacity to grow with clarity and ease, letting growth flow naturally from there.

Through this work, clients often describe feeling more grounded, clear, and confident — able to live and lead in ways that feel authentic and sustainable.

Learn more about the EXPANSIVE™ Framework.

ICF Mentor Coaching

Alongside my private practice, I serve as an ICF Mentor Coach and have guided more than 150 coaches toward their ACC, PCC, and MCC credentials.

Mentor coaching with me is spacious, reflective, and practical. It’s about strengthening alignment with the ICF Core Competencies, refining your skills, and deepening trust in your own coaching voice. Learn more about earning or renewing your credentials here.

In all forms of my work—coaching, mentor coaching, and leadership development—I intend to help you discover your inner resources, reconnect with your strengths, and cultivate well-being in the midst of real life.

I design and deliver tailored coaching that empowers YOU to flourish in all areas of your life.

🧡 If something here resonates, I would love to connect.

You do not need to have it all figured out, just a little room to breathe and openness to what’s next.

More About Jory's Background
More About Coaching With Jory 
It’s not magic, it’s work! But you don’t have to do it alone.

Gain clarity, discover your values and strengths, tackle obstacles, and take massive action. Together, we can partner to achieve your goals, empowering you to thrive in every area of your life.

Choose the path that’s right for you.

  • Leadership & Executive Coaching

    Flourish in your professional life and create a new sense of passion and purpose at work.

    Leadership & Executive

  • Life & Wellbeing Coaching

    Learn evidence -based practices to lead a more purposeful, intentional and balanced life.

    Life & Wellbeing

  • ICF Mentor Coaching

    Comprehensive Mentor Coaching for individuals pursuing ACC, PCC, or MCC certification with the ICF.

    Mentor Coaching

  • Continuing Education

    Evidence-based ICF-accredited continuing education courses for coaches.

    Continuing Ed.

I have coached and supported leaders across a wide variety of organizations and industries.

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  • "Jory has been a game changing part of both my professional and personal life. She is beyond kind and knowledgable, and I always find her coaching to be the approach I need in that moment. She takes the time to get to know her clients and their personal values - she truly cares about each of us. I not only realize moments of growth during our sessions, but have seen the long lasting approach her coaching has had on my life since. She has helped me build more resilience and self-empathy, and I find myself showing up as my best self more often because of the work we've done. I would highly recommend Jory for anyone who is interested in professional or personal coaching - there is truly no one better!"

    Carli Monterastelli (Arioto), Head of SDR, Monte Carlo

  • "I’ve been meeting with Jory for a couple of years and highly recommend her as a trusted, perceptive and results-oriented coach. She considers your whole person, listens and asks thoughtful questions to help you explore wherever you want / need to go. At the end of each session, she makes sure you are taking at least one action step to achieve your goal and she helps keep your accountable along your journey. I love working with her!"

    J. M., Senior Director of Talent & Learning

  • "Working with Jory has been groundbreaking in my success towards my personal goals. She is a calm place to discuss personal issues and able to provide realistic tools and background on how to move forward. Jory challenges you to push yourself through the difficult times and is always there to celebrate your successes. She has set the path for me to continue growing to better understand myself and why I show up the way I do to work and other aspects of my life. I will miss working with her but am grateful our paths crossed as I continue my journey in self-discovery."

    S. M., Optimization Engineer at Chevron

  • "Thank you to for the amazing coaching! From our first session to our last, her focus was entirely on helping me work through the barriers, issues, and self-saboteurs keeping me from being the best I can be. I learned something every session about myself that built into the next session. Jory has this unique ability to know just the right question to ask, or the exact right moment to poke at something I said. I can not guess the number of lightbulb moments of why I behave a certain way came from this perfectly timed, perfectly targeted moments. I am more confident in myself, know more about why I behave t he way I do, and feel prepared to move forward in bettering myself and how I interact with the world around me. All of that is because of the excellent coaching I received from Jory!!"

    J. S., Chief Data Transport Technical Agent at the US Department of Air Force

  • "I am so thankful to Jory for helping me understand myself better and learn to show self-compassion. I have gained many effective tools to help me continue to grow and improve in stress management and communication. I will always cherish the time we spent together. Thank you again Jory!!"

    S. C., Clinical Director of Nursing at Christus Children’s Hospital

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  • In a world where coaching has become more mainstream, I bring a unique blend of professional expertise and personal experience that clients often say feels rare and invaluable. My approach is shaped not only by 4,500+ hours of coaching and a Master Certified Coach (MCC) ICF credential but also by life experiences that many clients find profoundly relatable and reassuring.

    I offer more than surface-level strategies or one-size-fits-all advice; I partner with clients to delve deeply, fostering the self-awareness, resilience, and confidence that will endure far beyond our sessions. My work is rooted in continuous learning, compassion, and genuine curiosity for each client’s unique path.

    Rather than following a rigid methodology, I adapt my approach intuitively and responsively—meeting each client exactly where they are, and helping them unlock the next steps of their journey with tools that align meaningfully with their needs.

    This isn’t just coaching; it’s a partnership aimed at lasting, transformative growth.

    You can learn more about my journey and experiences HERE.

  • I use evidence-based best coaching practices from the fields of somatic coaching, cognitive behavioral therapy, positive psychology, and mindfulness to challenge your limiting beliefs, uncover possible thinking mistakes, and learn new, practical methodologies to disrupt them.

    Learn more about the methodologies and how I work with people HERE.

  • Let’s start with a coffee! Schedule your free 30-minute consultation, where we can chat about what really matters to you, the challenges you’re facing, and what you’re hoping to get out of coaching. We’ll explore how coaching might help you move forward and see if it feels like we are a good fit. No pressure!

    If you have other questions, check out the FAQ page or just reach out—I’d love to connect and learn more about what’s next for you!

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